I am more philanthropic than the average American and donate within my means to a variety of causes, whether such donations qualify as tax deductions or not. A recent recipient of my “generosity” was a local pairs figure skating team which I have followed since its skaters were 9 or 10, and which is competing this season for a spot on the 2026 US Winter Olympics skating team. I was the pair’s largest single donor on GoFundMe during the 2023-24 and 2024-25 seasons and also contributed sizably during the 2022-23 season.
Seven weeks ago, I messaged the team on its official team Instagram channel, expressing interest in bypassing GoFundMe. I wanted to mail them a check for the coming season by regular post. Per Instagram, someone logs into and monitors their account daily, so I know the message was received ... but not acknowledged. Instead, deafening silence... for seven weeks. In response to a private message from their hitherto largest individual donor.
Years from now, the team, their coaching staff and their home club will look back and insist I deserted them. But here, for the record, is proof otherwise. I am considerably more philanthropic than the average American, but I do not beg others to accept my donations. Ever.